Abuse, rape, molestation and traumatic events may result in a wall of separation being formed.  The holy spirit can take this wall down and heal inner hurts.  You can receive this blessing by releasing the pain to God.

In You, O Lord, I put my trust; Let me never be put to shame. Deliver me in Your righteousness, and cause me to escape; Incline Your ear to me, and save me. Be my strong refuge, To which I may resort continually; You have given the commandment to save me, For You are my rock and my fortress.  Psalm 71:1-3 NKJV